Get Back With Your Ex In 4 Steps

If you desire a healthy and strong relationship you will need to work at it, cuddle it and maintain it.  We humans are a fragile bunch and so are our relationships.  How easy is it to get your feeling hurt by the ones you love?  Easy, right?  How hard is it to misunderstand something they say to us?  Again, very easy.  Hey, listen, break ups are a way of life and they happen ALL the time.  You and I both know how break ups can bring on stress and heart ache.  There have been times after I have personally had a break up that I wanted to lash out at my ex and get back at them somehow.  I had to take a serious step back and ask myself if that was the correct thing to do.

It is interesting, because if you want to know how to get your ex back fast, there are some things you can do that would put your ex in a weird place that also might get you back together with your ex.  I think that is funny!  Get back at them while getting back together with them by showing them what they are missing with you…   I love this strategy, check it out.

1. Strengthen your backbone.   Showing your ex that you have moved on is a huge step in this process.  Don’t be clingy, possessive and a beggar.  Be strong, courageous and awesome!  You are not desperate and if by chance you mess up and show that you are desperate for your ex, and then you can kiss a possible getting back together good bye!  Think about it.  When you have broken up with someone and you think they have moved on, didn’t you start to wonder about them?  Start to have feeling again?  We want what we think we can’t have.

1. Be “whatever” with your ex.  Just be like “whatever”, if she wants to come get their stuff or if they want to move out.  So what?  It’s just another day to you people.  No need to force them to move, get their stuff or even force the issue of talking to you about the problems.  You want to get back at them?  Be cool calm and collected and hey, whatever!  They will be curious and start to rethink things.  Will it happen right there?  Maybe, maybe not, just go with the flow.

1. No talky talk.  Being as nice and polite as possible without the talky talk will be SUPER productive in getting back with your ex.  Don’t be an ass though and act as if they don’t exist.  Just stop the constant texting, phone calls and emails.  Also, for a while stop taking their calls, texts and what not.  take a step out of the communication space and allow everyone respectively to clear their head to get a better perspective.

1. 4.       Party Time.   Be social, play some sports, make new friends and get out of the freaking house!  By staying home and feeling sorry for yourself all you will be doing is thinking about the ISSUE.  It is not even a bad idea to go on a few dates.  Nothing serious, of course but some dates to see what’s up in the world.

After a break up is the best time to get to know yourself again.  Depending on how long you were together with your ex you may have lost sight of who you were.  Time to explore the YOU.  This is a time to enjoy life to its fullest.  Don’t let a break up get the best of you.

If you find yourself depressed and a total head case, you may find yourself wanting to start those annoying texts, phone calls and apology letters all over again begging your ex to come back.  Ask yourself, is this really going to work or will I just be pushing them further away?  I think you know the answer to that.  When people are pushed the others will run.  If you find yourself in this predicament then go back to step 1 and start over.  You are stronger than you think you are, you just have to be strong!
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